Mom of NICU Twins Gives Milk to Give Back

Autumn Brinegar
Arizona

My husband is in the Air Force and we were stationed in Okinawa, Japan when our twins, Sawyer and Lucia, were born prematurely at 32 weeks. When the twins were only six days old, they discovered Sawyer had a heart condition and we were immediately flown from Japan to San Diego, CA, and lived in the Ronald McDonald House for a few months while Sawyer's heart was operated on.

Unfortunately, the NICU did not have donor milk available at that time. The twins were supplemented with formula until I could produce enough milk for them. I wish they had been given donor milk instead, but I was thankful I was able to produce what they needed. The twins are now 19 months old and thriving! The NICU was so kind to us and I really have been wanting to give back to premature babies somehow, so I was excited to learn of this opportunity when I researched donating breast milk.

I researched breast milk donation online after I realized that I was overproducing for my third baby, Ayan. I had always wanted to give back somehow since the NICU in Okinawa and San Diego were both so amazing to us. I couldn't have gotten through that experience without the incredible staff and the sweet volunteers. I was disheartened to learn that there wasn't a milk bank near me in Arizona, so I contacted Mothers' Milk Bank of North Texas just to check out if there were any long-distance options and was excited when Simone responded. So far I have been able to share 400 ounces of pumped milk since Ayan's birth in November 2013. I plan to continue to donate milk as long as I can.

Autumn's breastfeeding advice:
Don't worry about all of the breastfeeding rules you hear about- "NEVER do this, NEVER do that.... You HAVE to do this...."  I remember hearing a lot of that and stressing so much! Do what works for you and don't be hard on yourself.